. ) He invited me to his place for dinner and movies. Until I came back to my city. Like I said before, he is the one who told me he loved me etc first. And Im sincerely sorry about your husband Truly. Are yall friends? So Im supposed to be all like, NO you need to text me and call me, your behavior is unacceptable and I dont care if your mom is dying LOL, no way! At one point I was going to go home and shower and he told me to shower at his place and just put his sweats on. Well here is what I wish he had said: I like to think that this is what he had wanted to say: Dont wanna see your tears A part of me wants to reach out and acknowledge that we werent exclusive, but I thought he valued communication and was under the impression he would have extended that courtesy to say not interested or whatever what do you think? He probably didnt want to continue talking to you because he did like you a lot but the relationship wasnt going anywhere. She is as sweet as they come, pretty, and very dependable. I reached out to him twice, but no reaction. Would rather live single than go through this stuff, all games! Im just thankful I dont have to go further with any of them. After a week I felt that may be I should initiate a contact and wont mention about our differences. I have been speaking to a younger guy I met online from.a different.city who seemed really nice he as been calling me..most night messaging me everyday told.me.im the girl he as rebooking for ect and we have been planning to meet.up then I started noticing he was speaking to other girls and taking.longer than usual to reply I guess he was doing the fade out thing so I dissent message him today at all I usually message him everyday then I got home from work went to message him on Facebook and he has blocked me wtf.i dont know what Ive done but theres a pattern emerging it has happened a few times before its really starting to annoy me.and im so hurt I speak to his friend who says I should give him space and hold out but I dont know weather I should just walk away I dont want to look pathetic ? We excitedly made plans to hang out. Acting and talking arrogantly. Hi, Thankyou for the Blog i learnt its disinterest mostly that causes disappearance mostly. He was clearly pulling away. He blew up my phone in the beginning then he slowly faded off. Why do they go missing just to come back days or weeks later? No hard feelings. I do not come off as needy or pushy and know to show my appreciation and be genuine. No one. I thought men outgrew this but even pushing 50, some are still at it. Dont contact him anymore. Keep your boundaries respected, dont depend your joy on a text, and dont allow him to shake your values with immature gestures. A simple text as your last move is what puts your mind at rest. I choose to keep my dignity and not reach out but it is so hard not knowing why he stopped contacting me. Because I dont think I should, I think you shouldnt talk to him. Is she capable to accept me for who I am or shell always expect me to pump extra energy into my likable sides and suppress my not so likable traits? I feel as if I no longer mean anything to him and this is very hurtful and heartbreaking. I asked him if we could talk as I still had feelings for him but instead he just ignored me and blocked me off all social media. He gets the benefits of a relationship without having to commit. My friends think hes a douchebag and probably seeing that girl. And Im not going to be his buddy at bedtime either. Meeting strangers, and then having trust issues as we have no clue about how genuine or not their back ground is. But, I absolutely agree with you that in the end it speaks to his character or perhaps life circumstances, not you or what you did wrong. WTF with him?? For whatever reason, he let you expire. I anwered that that that was sweet and that i missed him. We finally had our first date after one week of talking and we ended up having a good time. I left around 10am. Him: Naah..How can I with you on my mind? Now to the ghosting the day after that conversation about making thigns work I text him and he responds to my text right away. You just have to come to terms on your own, that they just arent that into you. I dont get it! We lived long distance but we would tango and oovoo each other every now and then. Then, hed go a week. As I have mentioned before, after he sent the email asking for a break, I waited ovr week to reply. Of course im always friendly, As im not the confrontational type (Hence why ive sat back and allowed it Ugh!!) Lesson learned. And I am often complimented for my looks my face and my body. I havent been able to find someone with the same situation as me but I know exactly how this feels. That following week he faded into an all together disappearance act. Mind you I didnt do anything wrong. If he's not pursuing you, it's time to stop pursuing him. He just started to act like he didnt want to do, or plan anything, and wasnt spending enough time with me, so I addressed the issue to him, and first thing he said was I know Im not making you happy so I asked him what was wrong, he said he didnt know, I asked him if he needed some time and he reply yes. Let him know that you have your standards and that you're not willing to discard them just because you like him. But i stop them from becoming full blown by reminding myself that if his reason for disappearing is because of his unwillingness to support me when im going through a stressful time, do i really want that kind of relationship? Wtf, go away and leave me in peace. So I figure he met someone else he liked better, got back with his exwhatever. I opened my eyes to him staring at me at one point. It was the best decision that I made in this situation. He vanishes for weeks, I dont hear a word from him in this time, Then reappears from thin air. I dont know what to do. Its just that over the phone and countless hours that we had talked for and things that we shared, I had developed that kinda relationship with him where I felt We were texting and talking on phone a month before we met personally. And that is something that happens to a lot of women out there. There was no fight or nasty words exchanged between us prior to this break. When his coworker/friend mentioned me all I got from his coworker was he says he remembers you and thats it. No return phone call was made. Id appreciate the communication either way. Once the first vanishing occurs, others are sure to follow. Then in the middle of the week he texted again: Hey Luca will I see you on the weekend, I want to see you so much. The joke is on him, so whoever hes talking to now can have him and his drama. He said he wasnt interested. I am finally sleeping and feeling rested allows me to make better decisions, I know I didnt do anything wrong, so its his loss. Anything . And thats how men rationalize their actions. This guy is 7 years older than me (he was studying his 2nd career). It was written in a caring way. If this guy contacts you in a couple of weeks? Be kind always. You can stop a disappearance before it happens if you know what signs to look for. But, I would rather avoid her and try o pretend that I do not care at all about her despite my strong feelings for the lady. Its been 3 weeks now. My entire dating experience has been to have guys fall over themselves chasing me. Psychotherapist Leah Aguirre, LCSW provides us with 4 tips that you can implement to deal with texting anxiety: Therefore, when he texts after disappearing, take your time, allow yourself some breathing room, and react calmly and clearly to his text. First date went really well and we agreed to see each other the day after. So if the guy thinks and behaves like you, what do you think the girl who cares about him should do to change his mind? Its been three weeks now that I have heard nothing. A guy might disappear for a range of reasons such as loss of interest, priority to anything excusable, to something like his phone dying. Well, he went all in messaging me, saying how he could live with my smile forever, he loved me, we should go on holiday together [we hadnt even gone on a date], live together etc etc..he was so full on I backed off bigtime which didnt put him off at all. If hes gone, he wasnt worth your time anyway. I just cant understand how someone can go from being sooo close and attached to you to just no contact and so dry. My profile stated I want to find someone to marry, not casual dating around, he knew this.why would he waste his time thenif he just wants a fling. Needlesa to say, I stayed the night. I like you! And then I tried to relax. Many thanks. I was upset and emotional. We were dating 2 months. I have this guy who has pulled away from me for a while now We truely enjoy being together (out or in bed) but he rarely contacts me while we would just talk 2 or 3 hours a day before that. He replied, how do you know??? Maybe hes goin through a family issue? No amount of excuses or saying that the other girl didnt have this or that will replace the fact that you took the easy way out. They tell themselves that she must know this isnt going to work out and calling and telling her something she already knows would just be silly, so thats the end of that. Almost every one of your friends has met at least one guy who disappeared from their lives suddenly and then decided to come back after some time. And now I dont think he even cares. Thanks, its helpful to hear a guys point of view on this. If he says one thing but does another, then its time to start doing a slow fade out of your own. A guy will disappear without letting you know because he isnt comfortable enough to tell you that he wants to break things off. To please have that respect. Why doesnt he do me the courtesy of just explaining where I stand. Don't respond whenever he's trying to reach out to you. I had a man propose to me too then ghosted on me. Was because I am a single mother and he is a single father, too? Theres only one you anywhere, so its worth it to meet people you really click with! We never argued or fought. The problem is when we meet a guy and we start to like him we fantasize about him too much. but you know I never contact him again until now. Penpals can definitely be fun! Frankly, I wouldnt help her out unless I was extremely serious about her. again. He doesnt like to text because of the little letters on the phone. But was going to visit the one he is on. Good luck with everything:). The broken promises of I will be back in a few weeks from work and it changes to months and months. Better not to analyze it and just let it go. But instead lied and then went dry and vanished. I was not feeling well over that weekend. So be polite, but be assertive. I know when someone is laying it on thick. So sorry this happened to you similar thing happened to me. i just thought it would be great experience to go out of my country and visit him. I left her hanging, blocked her on all social media accounts. Although I knew at the end of ourr last date that I felt Id never see him again because of a couple of his responses and body language..but I guess I didnt want it to be true. I dont understand how we were doing so well and then he just disappears :s he stopped snapchatting in general as well, all his best friends are gone so he doesnt respond to anyone, I was his top snapchatter as well. They have options thats why the late night/early morning calls. people take it personally and think if only i can show him what a great person i am!!! I am trying so hard to move on. He's vague about everything. You tell yourself you cant understand it even though the red flags were very clear, which indicates your BS detector could use some fine-tuning. it was an awesome first date, wonderful kiss at the end, we had a great time. Well, I figured I would step up and invite him to dinner last week, which he cheerfully accepted. Get to know them and vice versa. Let him ask you some questions, have a little light conversation and then share your thoughts with him. I didnt beg or plead or show hurt, I just told him I was confused when I ran into him after that. He said he love me, but he seems like dont. It has been almost four months now since. But I really dont care! But no, days passed and he didnt care. Since he works at the store I get my groceries from I used a different picture.. Ladies, never ever feel you werent good enough! He thought it was best. unfortunately i do know that he is alive so it was not because he dropped dead that he disappeared. He cared to tell me he was not interested over coffee, and from hia oint of view what i should stop doing. He was perfect. I also started having feeling that he is losing interest and may be somewhere I felt stuck as I cant see anyone else and I am not sure if he is that interested. I didnt want to involve my family or friends just as yet. Do not listen to his words. and that was it. I met a very young handsome and extremely wealthy guy. When you stop texting to see what he does, you have nothing to lose. This time we went to go see a movie, his friends called him when we got back to my place, apparently they were all downtown. He told you he wanted to hang and then never reached out again nor did he respond when you sent him the last message. A form of reassuring himself that youre also investing in the relationship. He responded a day later and said he was good and had a rough week. He was very straight forward and i liked that about him. I asked him if he still wanted to do this and he got mad about me asking that, said I was asking stupid questions that he would answer later. We were close friends until we kissed at a party for the first time 2years ago and I really freaked out. You like the guy, and he seemed like no other! I started online dating and met this awesome guywe were texting literally nonstop for there days. I texted him the following evening (Monday) apologizing for staying so late, and said I hope he got enough sleep. What hurts me is, he went 360 on me, from being a sweetheart to ignoring me without any known reason. Im still so confused and hurt. I was pretty insecure and he knew that but he was he one having nightmares at night that id leave him. If you decide to give him another chance, Id make this very clear to him. Whats left? Because it is SPOT on. Then it's important to respond to his text in a manner that's calm and positive, but highly assertive. The more and more I get relationship advice from other women the more I realize that the most of you will just cause me more arguments and more problems in my relationship. 5 Key Takeaways. Ppl pointed things out to me that I didnt even realize I was doing. You said it so well! It was just so shady and the part that annoys me is why say youre gonna come pick a girl up if youre not? It just hurts cause I really did fall for him and he looked me in my eyes and said how so in love he was. From the first night we started talking he told me about his drug use of heroin and how he only did it occasionally when he got paid. flirting with a guy Ive never met, really? Anyway I hope this helps some of girls out there feeling confused by why a guy has suddenly disappeared Here goes, even up to a few years back I had terrible self esteem, I mean completely dire. We continued to text each other from morning till night every day! Hellllppp. In the interim I noticed him make googly eyes at a female on Instagram. Then poof hes gone. Ill listen to the excuse *ahem, reason* and see if it warrants a second chance. He has treated you very poorly. Guy came on very strong an confident started to talk about checking out various events in town in our next dates, bringing me on a holiday etc (I didnt even suggest any of these!). I had sent him one more after that and he didnt answer for days. And that's something they spotted before you did. But no man in the world has never not done something like that, at least once. good times at a nice restaurant shes still talking quite a bit and im starting to notice having to manufacture interest in the conversation sometimes since i dont really get a turn to talk. I always show genuine appreciation. Amy well said. It is really unfortunate that this is something you now have to deal with, but I would advise you to use this as a lesson. It is important to give a Virgo man space when he needs it, as this will help him to process his feelings and come back to the relationship stronger. I booked the ticket with my card and he told me he would transfer me his half of the money. I said just: I would love to:) Day Three: You know that if you contact him again you will appear desperate, so you wait another day before attempting to contact him again. I have followed their advice for years and its always been spot on). Sometimes it means he is multi dating. Its really not about you at all. but Im really not into games or being passive aggressive, so I called him out on it. Where exactly do I start ..cause I am soooo hurt to the point of anger!lol If he met someone new that was competition for you, since he wasnt officially your boyfriend chances are he would try to hang out with you also- at least for a while, instead of suddenly going cold. I dont have any emotional baggage. The odd thing is he has NEVER ignored me before. Kissed good bye and then he was really bad at answering my texts after that. The exclusive talk is easiest after sleeping with someone, and you dont have to use that word, you just communicate that youre not sleeping with anyone else and its ok with you if you guys see how it goes and stop seeing other people.. or something. A few hours later, I texted him and said I had a good time and was looking forward to seeing him again soon. All I see anymore are complaints and frustrations related to texting. I dont know! Everything seemed perfect. BE A DAMNED MAN AND TELL THE LADY YOU DONT WANT TO SEE HER ANYMORE! So I was chatting with this guy on fb for a few weeks. Date many people but do not sleep with them. Maybe he saw another piece of ass at the store and told himself: Screw that chick, Im hittin this instead! Who the hell knows?! This will eat away at your self-esteem and will repel any new potential suitors that might come along. He even told me that wherever this may lead he is 100% invested in it, and that he is going to prove it etc. I also dont feel alone in my situation! Am I able to ever cross over again now that we are friends cuz I dont feel like I have gotten uglier and I know he was physically attracted to me. But again after the week I was on a bussiness trip out of country. So if a vanisher does reappear on the scene and start reaching out to you again, as I shared with you, approach him lovingly but directly about it. Thanks. Second, ghosting is not only pulling away for him. He also started calling and over the phone we talked for hours on end. Smith, I just had to respond to your comment!!! We said our good byes hugged and went our ways. Once I came back off holiday it was a month after the break up, I went to his to get closure because I wanted to know why he did it. i didnt ask for a cent to repay. So a shoddy treatment of me from someone who claims to love me is not on. Seriously! Ive asked that too.. Do you want me to leave you alone? He just says, why would I want that? I didnt even need his reply (I know him, so I expected that he wouldnt reply), but at least I have what I wanted a closure. Fast forward a month, has been texting on and off everyday, he has his kids the entire month of June so I didnt expect to hear from him much. Click below! Like he did too and I could see myself with him. I feel bad writing such positive things about me. So it actually really pays to take the emotional charge out of feeling blown off. Kind of held on to that it was special. I left him a good voicemail, I was angry hurt and upset, actually in tears, as it was my birthday, my best friend died of a heart attack 2 months before, I cant find work and I have no family hereSo he did not call back. At this point, I felt like a child being given an empty promise just to keep me quiet so I told him, its hard to communicate in Text messages and some things were better said in person. Then he turned it around on me and said I was pushing the gas pedal down too hard and he wasnt sure what he wanted and this started out to be fun but he got a sense it was headed somewhere more serious (remember week 1 he said he was falling for me and he said it was headed somewhere serious not me.) I am no longer going to chase a guy, if he is interested he will chase me. Thats it. Thats what Women have reduced themselves to. I just want to disappear out of his life to. He has always said to me that when he is back from work he will adk me out again or over his way for a meal? 3 turned intimate. Because I didnt know he was a magician. did i get too clingy? I have well paying job, a home, a vehicle and make my own decent money, so not looking for hand outs, I dont have any issues with my kids father and Im a pretty positive person. Goodness. Days? And then the alarm goes off. Once I got him to open he he told me he is confused and he doesnt know what he wants in life and has so much going on. Just be yourself. Dont waste another minute thinking about him and dont text him again!! The first time he did this was after we got intimate. Sounds like he used you for an emotional crutch to get over his girlfriend. This time his answer was suddenly emotionless and official and he told me he will not be at home that time. Until that night. He said yeah because she noticed that you are my page and it upset her. Not as well thought out. I dont get it at allit burns. He invited me to meet him up at the gym, he was very flirty, very touchy, in between sets he would come talk to me. But we would cuddle and kiss. Things were great even talking about moving in together after i return from a 2weeks vacation just this month. We talked while he was away every day maybe twice I caught him in a lie about when he checked out of his hotel and wondered where he was? Either way, you win! Then he had an issue with his ex and I didnt hear a word for 12 hours. Let the ball be in his court. Its been a week and a half and nothing! I realized I didnt need closure or be rude. Wrong. Within a week we saw eachother 3 times th firstweekend I stayed over and it really felt like I knew him forever. He had begun to tell me he was falling in love with me, and spoke of a future (kids, white picket fence, the whole ordeal). An example of this is that you had been very vocal to him about your intentions of getting back with him again during and after the breakup. Things were back to normal it felt. By being both genuine in your disappointment while highly assertive, youre being your best self, and asking him to rise to his. it took a while to get myself back after that first disappearance but i did. Good looks, Great job and a very Confident attitude. . I educated my self enough to let go. disgusting how guys treat us and were admonished to stay passive. Look at it the way they do, and maybe things will work out, but dont hold your breath and dont expect not to be hurt either. Thank you for your comment. We would talk for a while and it would go a week or so, and we would talk again. Time for an upgrade! Move on because you deserve that! We never saw eachother yet and we made plans to see eachother on a Saturday. I called him like 3 or 4 times everyday for about 5 days, he didnt answer. i wish this made me stronger but in fact it still hurts.. hope something better is waiting out there. I think hes sleeping with other women. Well we saw each other and wow ! Yes, he spends the same amount of time with me as he always has. Soon never arrived. They are not that into you if they do the fade contacting you. Its really done a number on my confidence because let me tell you, I truly trusted thi mans character and would have never thought him capable if something so cruel and immature. At the end of our freshman year he started becoming more and more distant. Was messaging a guy on happn. I was so nervous I was a rambling mess but we hung out for hours at the end of the night his work phone rang ( he was on call ) and he ran out. Not even 48 hours later I passed him and he had a girl on the back of his bike. Then communication slowed down stopped answering my texts I kept at it though kept messaging him once and a while I would get a brief answer back with like a heart then that stopped completely I tried reaching out to him to let him know when I was diagnosed with breast cancer and was having surgery I was still convincing myself he loved me but no response back at all so kept myself busy and eventually moved on and started to date again now yesterday I got a text from this man he was saying how he joined the army and didnt want me to worry if he got hurt or killed so he didnt tell me now he is saying how sad he is he hoped to come back and make me his wife made me feel guilty The guy who I was cool with for awhile did this. Did he ask for gifts? I am definitely not someone who will lose confidence over such things. We talked about sex and specifically how long we wanted to wait. And do NOT check up on him on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other social media portal. 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